Talia Joy Castellano was beautiful.
An Honorary CoverGirl beautiful.
When she was 7 years old, Talia was diagnosed with Stage 4 Neuroblastoma. She died on July 16th, 2013. She was 13 years old.
On her Facebook profile, she wrote:
“I’m Talia, I’m 13 years old and I love makeup. “Make-up is My Wig” I like to say.
You can prob see I’m bald- I have cancer. (neuroblastoma)& leukemia)
I don’t like wearing wigs so I wear makeup to feel good and pretty inside –
and I guess outside. LOL!”
She absolutely loved make-up. Her You Tube channel, taliajoy18, included make-up tutorials about how to effectively use eyeliner and matte bronzer, the difference between make-up for days and make-up for evenings, the latest in lipstick shades, along with hundreds of other tips. It also included updates and personal videos about her cancer treatments.
Taliajoy18 had over 750,000 subscribers.
In August, 2012, Talia commented on her notoriety:
“You Tube, and all the support that I get from everyone
telling me that I’m inspiring and not to give up,
it really makes you stop and think about how many people there are
that love you…You’re not there alone.”
In September, 2012, Ellen DeGeneres invited Talia to appear on her TV show and revealed that CoverGirl had named Talia an Honorary CoverGirl.
At Thanksgiving, her Facebook listed the “little things” Talia was grateful for – like “how stinking cute her pooch looks in her sweaters, the smell of her mom’s corn casserole, having campfires in her back yard with her family when the sun goes down, just being in the same room as her big sister, the little hugs of encouragement from a friend…”
Five days before she died, Talia posted 76 “Things I Wanna Do Before I Die.”
She actually got to a few.
She asked her Facebook fans to head out to do some of the things for her, in case she didn’t get a chance to perform all 76 wishes. To this day, her fans are still keeping Talia’s dreams alive by completing her bucket list, then posting their shots on Facebook.
In her final days, Talia was still her brave, sweet self. Her family shared this moment:
“Talia woke up again and asked for more to drink.
Her family and friends in the room started showing her the packages and fan mail again.
After a few minutes, Talia paused.
She looked around the room and said ‘I could cry right now…’
Her Mom got up real close to her and said ‘What’s wrong baby?.. Don’t cry..’
And Talia said ‘I’m just so grateful… I’m so grateful for you guys…’
Her family said that ‘This all melted our hearts.’”
In a video interview with The Truth 365, Talia shared this:
“In a hundred years, I would like to be remembered
as the bubbly girl who wanted to do something
about childhood cancer.”
On July 16th, her family posted this tweet: “It is with a heavy heart that we share with all of you that Talia has earned her wings at 11:22am,” which continued on Facebook:
“Please lift her beautiful soul, her beautiful light to heaven
and please send your love and prayers to her family
during this most difficult time.
God speed little one, may you be free from pain and suffering,
may your soul feel the light and love that you brought to so many of us
on this Earth during the short time you were her with us.
We will miss you more than you will ever know baby girl.”
Talia Joy Castellano was beautiful.
An Honorary CoverGirl beautiful.
But even more beautiful was her bubbly outlook, her courage and determination in the face of her cancer. Her wanting to reach out to others by educating them about make-up, childhood cancer, and being a teen-ager. Her continuing to offer hope and inspiration by jotting down and sharing her own bucket list of 76 dreams just 5 days before she died.
Her smile was huge, her heart even bigger. And her soul – her soul limitless. And eternal.
Talia Joy Castellano lives on in her “Angels for Talia” site on Facebook. In every person who carries out one of her 76 “Things I Wanna Do Before I Die” in her memory. In every person who reads about her, watches her You Tube videos, or smiles when they see her picture.
Talia’s No. 41 on her list is simple: Be loved.
One more to be crossed off your bucket list, Talia. Most certainly, you are, and always will be, loved.
Thank you for inspiring those of us left behind.
Your spirit shimmers and dances with light.
You are precious.
You are beautiful.
You are loved.
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Reblogged this on Change is Never Ending.
Thank you so much on your re-blog of this very special young lady!
I had not even known about Talia. I know her now. This is a beautiful post.
Thank you. As was she…
Reblogged this on ladybluerose and commented:
a beautiful sweet spirit has got her wings…
Talia Joy Castellano was beautiful. inside through-out her entire being
the world could learn from the true value of life from this young Soul…
May she Rest in Peace…
Take Care…You Matter…
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maryrose
Thank you so much for your re-blog.
my pleasure…She was such a wonderful spirit…
I had not heard she passed….sometimes we let life get in the way …
Thank you for sharing….
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Thank you for sharing..I have been a bystander in her journey..in awe of her
zest for living….
Take Care…You Matter…
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maryrose
My privilege and pleasure. I wanted to give people someone else to talk about rather than Miley… Talia is a wonderful role model for adults and adolescents alike.
Perfect ! a wonderful thought!
and I agree….
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Such a wonderful and touching story of a beautiful girl! Had a good cry reading this, thanks for sharing!
I was also inspired by this ‘old soul.’ She has much she could teach us. Thank you for reading and commenting on Talia.
Beautiful, thank you
Thank you for stopping by and commenting.
Very moving and inspirational. Thanks for sharing. Peace, Ik
Thank you. We can always use inspirational. That’s what I hope to achieve here on Soul Gatherings. Thank you for taking the time to read and comment.
Truly beautiful and poignant. Thank you for sharing it . . . it does much to reveal your own wonderful heart. Peace . . .
You are welcome. You honestly gave me pause with your comment, Rising Hawk. When I write about such inspirational people, it is because I find much to admire in them, and has nothing to do with me. Your kindness in carrying this further is beyond appreciated; I will think on it.
Thank you for the giving me a warm heart this evening – for sharing this story.
My blessings in return…
It never ceases to amaze my how some people can raise above adversity. This wonderful young girl is a shining light to us all. God love her and keeps here may this knowledge comfort her family.
She truly shines. The “triumph of the human spirit” is what I try to bring forth in my posts; I so admire ordinary people who are quite extraordinary in their response to life. People like Talia warm my heart, and give me hope.
Me too!
I love Talia and you too for posting this absolutely beautiful story dear
thank you very much my sister
You are so welcome, Ajay. I have missed your voice. Blessings…
thank you dear I am blessed to have you and my guide and a very very respectable sister.
thank you very much for posting beautiful posts
love that very very much
My privilege, Ajay. I know you seem to like my posts to do with parents; I hope you took a look at “When Did I Start to Look Like My Mother?” I’m definitely getting older, and, I hope, wiser.
yes dear definitely but beauty with understanding of the truth is worth a million times more, you will agree dear
thanks
Not only knowledge, but wisdom.
yes dear right 🙂
A blog post doesn’t get much better than this. Beautiful! ♥
Thank you. Quite a young lady…
A Heartbreaking story Theresa and one every mother fears. The world can be an amazing place. Loving kind humans and people like this young lady who shine so bright for a short time. Thank you for this.
You’re welcome. A shining example of decency in anyone, let alone one so young, is always good for the soul.
Lovely tribute. I remember this brave soul.
In remembering, you honor her. Thank you for stopping by and commenting.
Thank you, Theresa, for this beautiful and touching post. We all need to keep knowing about, hearing about, those among us who elevate the entire vibration of our planet and certainly Talia was on of those people. Her body may be gone, but her spirit lives on in many, and I am just so moved by people continuing to carry out one little girl’s bucket list.
Welcome to Soul Gatherings. I so agree with you; Talia showed uncommon courage and grace in her life – an example to all of us.